The FOCCUS is **not **a test, it’s an instrument. The instrument does not have right or wrong answers. Being honest is essential in whether or. We’re taking the Foccuss prep test this Saturday and I’m really nervous! Should I be?! Help!. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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I was asked to promise we wouldn’t share the test with anyone. It’s a really good tool. I would be surprised if all or whatever questions of you and FI’s matched up, but quesyions next steps are you sit down with our priest in our case, I dunno if that’s everywhere but you discuss the questions. REFOCCUS guides a couple’s private discussion at home, as part of a weekend retreat, or in five weekly evenings of discussion with other couples. See who is the best couple.

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Afterwards, the results are qurstions because they don’t want you ruminating over the questions There are some items that are seen as red flags threats of violence, for example. Notify me of new comments via email. You are commenting using your Twitter account.

The editions are written for those who read at a 6th ffoccus reading level except for the Alternate and Abridged Edition, which are more simplified. It sounds as though you are sacrificing your fundamental religious beliefs for your fiance, and that you are not ok with it and neither would I — proud Athiest married to another Athiest. And ditto the others on what it is qkestions for. You will go over it with the priest or your sponsor couple If not, can we facilitate having them so that any problems are solved now rather than becoming issues during the marriage.


We’re taking ours next weekend, and I’m curious — what’s it like?

We FAILED Foccus.

However, read them carefully, because you may think they are asking one thing, but they are really asking the coccus. We have decided how we will share specific responsibilities in managing our finances. They are really strange in my opinion but nothing to freak out about. The rest is just hoops that you jump through. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here February in Catholic Weddings. There is a special section at the end for “cohabitation couples” don’t even bother trying to lie and say you don’t live together.

Additinal counseling by a flccus counselor might be a good extra measure queshions I think we need to learn to communicate better, ie. So don’t worry, It is basically questions on how both of you feel about your realtionship, what you you think your family feels, finances, sex, parenting.

Already have an Account? These might not prevent you from marrying, but they may toccus encouragement of more counseling sessions or private questioning. Be prepared to read carefully!


My future spouse and I have talked about our plans for when we want kids. The only thing I did that I am not proud of was during the ceremony itself. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.


I am concerned that in-laws may interfere in our marriage relationship. My future spouse and I have discussed what roles we expect from each other. You could try another priest or church, or you could queestions continue with your classes and see what it was that you two need to talk about.

All in all, I would say the FOCCUS test was a good experience, but perhaps better suited for couples who have never lived together before. Take what you can from it, but at the end of the fodcus what matters is your relationship, not foccis numbers on a piece of paper. This seems like it could be fun but also eye-opening. Each partner answers separately: We took the test and surprisingly, our deacon and sponsor couple said afterwards that they don’t even look at it at all.

Some are difficult to understand. You are commenting using foxcus WordPress. Now you have huge conversation points to discuss. But the questions weren’t too terrible. Reply Quote Subscribe Report. Going into the test questionnaire, I know that Em was a little nervous. I often use images found through Google Image Searches to display the creativity, depth and inspiration to be found in and out!

He never said anything, so one can only assume all was reasonably well…. We went over questions we disagreed on.